There is a whole industry built around the Law of Attraction and teaching people how to attract the House, money, boat, all the trappings. It is big business. and so many ways to do it. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t.

In reality we all attract what we focus our attention on. In our normal lives some are glued to the idiot box watching other people doing what we would like to be.  We look at them and dream about happening it all. More to the point we fantasise, or even more restricting, become envious or focus on not happening it. We use so much energy pushing it away by our negative programming. Our subconscious beliefs that we can not have it, produce the desired effect. Not getting it.

We want more money, yet maintain negative beliefs about money and the type of people who have it. Take one day in your life and listen to yourself. Hear what you are really focussing on. Search for what you really believe about what you think you want.

People who have not grown up with money have layers of limiting beliefs about the bad side of money. The end result, they never have enough money. I will add here, most people when challenged on their goals do not in fact want more money.

Insert, health, happiness, love, relationships, sports car s.etc., in the equation. They inner core beliefs are opposed to what we think we want.

Self Sabotage is sometimes blamed for us not getting what we want. Self Sabotage is no more than a programme that is focussed on what we really want or believe we are worth as opposed to what we are putting out for. An example; we want a loving nurturing supportive relationship. We do all the goal setting and it just does not come,. Why? Could it be it is not what we really want, maybe we just want someone to jump into bed with. Maybe someone to cook and clean and pop out a few kids while we hang out with our mates. The list goes on. When we are serious enough to stop stuffing around and get on with being amazing we need to take a good long hard look at ourselves and be a little more honest.

A client was aways working with the Law of Attraction, always focussing on what they wanted.  Cars travel, private jets, luxury everything.  One day we started to talk about their real goals, what their values were and what was really important.  It wasn’t the luxury stuff, it wasn’t anything like what they had been working towards.

Their real goal was to have a loving supportive relationship and help other people. A long way from the fantasy they had built.   If there is a secret to the Law of Attraction, it is probably best summed up by Kevin Trudeau in the Global Information Network training programme. Always.always, always focus on the end result and feel the feeling of having it now. 

Some basic steps

  • Work out What you Really Want (Sometimes we need help with this step)
  • Focus on Why you want it and to quote from  the movie The Secret the How’s are the Domain of the Universe
  • Start focussed on the end result and how it will make you feel. Remember the Brain is a processor, it is the heart that runs the show.
  • Getting clear on What You Rally Want can be a struggle, we have helped many people to clarify and redirect towards what is really important in their lives.

We have always beed successful at achieving our goals. Few of us took the time to work out what our goals actually were.

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