A Lesson in Understanding and Tolerence.

A Lesson in Understanding. 
“It is not for me to judge another man’s life. I must judge, I must choose, I must spurn, purely for myself. For myself, alone.” 
― Herman Hesse —
Sidhartha
 

Recently, during a  trip to Sydney I was confronted with some of my own prejudices and intolerances. Whilst waiting to meet a colleague I had a couple of hours free. […]

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The Empaths Inner Dark Side -The Narcissist.

“….in divinity opposites are always reconciled.”
– Walter M. Miller Jr. –
Saint Leibowitz and the Wild Horse Woman
So much is written on Empaths and Narcissists, the givers and the takers/receivers, the twin poles of the same magnet. Opposites attract and givers need takers and takers need givers, it is the flow of the multiverses, opposites seeking balance – equilibrium.

What is not […]

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How Childhood Events Flavour our Behaviour

For over a year I have contemplated eating a more healthy diet. Each time I do I seem to double my chocolate or processed food intake. It was like I was rebelling, but against what? Recently I made the earth shattering realisation that I was in fact, Unwilling to change and eat healthy.

Using one of the techniques from Motivational Kinesiology […]

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Covert Bullies – The clever manipulators

Chatting with a man the other day and I mentioned Covert Bullies. He asked me to explain.

A “Covert” bully is quiet a deceptive personality. They appear to the normal person as a victim or hard done by. They are extreme;y skilled at using their “victim” status to manipulate others to do that they want. Experience has taught me to be […]

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Two Wolves – A story about our inner battles

The Cherokee peoples have a tale the helps us understand our inner conflicts. Here is a link to the story – https://www.a-simple-christian.com/two-wolves.html

Within each of us their are two conflicting forces, one empowering, the other destructive. The good wolf and the bad wolf. Disney portrayed this in a Goofy comic as the devil and the Angel. Steiner dedicated thirty years, warning us […]

By |July 20th, 2018|Personal Growth|Comments Off on Two Wolves – A story about our inner battles

What is your WHY?

Many people are more than content to pass through life severing considering the BIG questions, Others spend their lives looking for the meaning behind the meaning of their lives. The pursuit of understanding is a deep mysterious rabbit hole with many dead ends. Much of the knowledge is of an intellectual orientation, without true life experience to validate it.

I sat […]

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When Things Go Wrong

Life has a funny way of challenging us to grow, to toughen up and deal with the challenges and blocks that stop our forward movement. The real truth is it is our own false beliefs and limitations that hinder our potential to succeed. All those little set backs, all the negative reinforcement from others we take to be true are […]

By |March 14th, 2018|Personal Growth|Comments Off on When Things Go Wrong

The Lies That Bind

Lies is a small word that brings about some pretty Big reactions. We all engage in the Art of Deception for a multitude of reasons, the most common is to avoid getting in trouble or dealing with other people’s reaction – sometimes violent.

Everyone knows that politicians are bent, bankers are criminals, the list goes on. But what about us? What […]

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Recognition – The Art of Praise

Click to watch this amazing 12 yer old sing

Why is it we find it easier to put people down than build them up? Recognition or praise is a gift, an appreciation that everyone offers something to the world.

In the video attached watch the 12 year old girl’s reaction when she receives a standing ovation for her song. How would it […]

By |June 19th, 2017|Personal Growth|Comments Off on Recognition – The Art of Praise

Discipline, Focus or Willpower

Most people who study or research success or personal  growth soon discover the power of discipline to be one of the key contributing factors. The power of follow through, the commitment to staying the distance is a key driver for those who rise to the top of their profession or sport, or achieve the level of personal growth that they aspire to. […]

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